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If your child does not settle
Young children are very clever, they learn to pull on your
heart stings, knowing what works. Young children will come up
with a number of ways of manipulating you through your feelings.
Be
aware that they may use statements like “I hate you”; “I hate Daycare”;
“She’s mean”. These are usually just ways to get their own
way.
It is a basic instinct of protection for them to behave like
this. Once your child realises that causing a fuss is not going to change things.
You
still have to go to work, they will settle easier. However, if your child
continues to get upset when you need to leave,
you could try to arrange for your partner or a friend to drop your child off
instead of you. It may simply be that your child is objecting to you
leaving, rather than there being a problem with their child care environment. |
However, if
your child continues to be miserable, talk to your carer.
Sometimes children settle as soon as the parent closes the door.
The fuss may be just for your benefit. Sometimes it is just a
habit.
Your child will come into contact with a whole
new group of people and take part in new experiences in their first
weeks of care and any one of these could influence their emotions.
It takes time for
young children to adjust to child care, some children take longer
than others.
Remember
consistency and routine is very important for children. Establish a
routine and stick to it. Don't try too many changes at once.
Let them get used to one change at a time.
Child care can be a
fantastic learning and social experience for children, if they can
learn to be comfortable in a small group, it will make going to
school less of a hurdle.
Make time for your
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